Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently?
…times I wish I’d taken action, particularly in relationships, however, I would not do anything differently because I would not have learned the lessons I have…everything (including my own reactions and behaviour) has happened to teach me something 💞
What makes you nervous?
…makes me nervous…as a single person talking to a stranger giving good vibes makes me crumble. Even though I’m in my 50’s as didn’t spend time single until my 40’s…I do not understand how to express myself without pretending to be a mate (buddy), rubbish at flirting! Ha ha
Describe a positive thing a family member has done for you.
…was the most positive things my Son has done for me.
I have two teenage Sons, both of whom are equally adored…though this post is dedicated to my eldest, T, as he is facing what half the world seems to be struggling with today, in that life is getting too much.
So I want to say to T that the most positive thing a family member has done for me is being brave enough to be born into this crazy world and to choose me as your Mumma, I am SO grateful 💝
What is your favorite restaurant?
…is any restaurant with good Tapas!
There is a fantastic tapas bistro in Malvern, UK called Bar Limon that feels like you could be in authentic Spain, food tastes delicious, people are very cool!
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There is a restaurant in London called Salt Yard, I was fortunate enough to eat there once, the food arrived in stages and each dish tasted amazing!
https://www.saltyardgroup.co.uk/restaurants/salt-yard
Love food!
What are 5 everyday things that bring you happiness?
…this is a good daily reminder when I get stuck in my head with, what feels like, immense worries…
Describe something you learned in high school.
…I learned in high school that I am a terrible exam taker, I felt un confident, unmotivated and nonchalant…and today, as a parent of late teenagers, my respect for the education system in the UK has not improved.
I think some teachers are incredible and deserve much more recognition than they get but the system is outdated in my opinion…too much pressure and stress is felt by some students (and teachers).
Should an entire childhood of learning be concluded by 1-2 hour exams?
Should exams define how “good” or “bad” someone’s learning skills are?
Does exam methodology fit every student? Not for me!
There needs to be a change to celebrate what students really know, not just retain information, what is really important to take into adult life or a chosen specialism…
Ooh I gave much more opinion in that answer than expected…thank you for reading if you got this far ☺️
Describe one positive change you have made in your life.
…I mean meditation!!! (…and maybe the odd glass of wine) is definitely a positive change I have made in my life…started in my late teens giggling and feeling uncomfortable as a teenager with my big Sis…now (over 30 years on) I do not know how I’d cope without my daily practice (as well as the wine 🍷 cheers!) ☺️
What animals make the best/worst pets?
…this is 12 year old Holly, who has been my dog daughter and lived with our little family since she was 8 weeks old.
Holly is THE most loyal, affectionate, funny, loving animal who has been by my side through lots of light and helped me out of the dark on several occasions.
Holly adores her human brothers and made sure my eldest Son learnt not to be afraid of dogs.
We are very fortunate to have this wonderful, sassy lady grace our home for all these years 💖
…so I am completely bias and can say with absolute confidence dogs make the best pet/animal (to me!) .
What job would you do for free?
…I would explore Space as a job with no monetary return…the experience would be a lifetime dream, what an experience! Closer to the stars ✨
How would you improve your community?
…I enjoy my personal space and little family unit, the first thing that came to mind on this daily prompt was that there isn’t a close neighbourhood community in my country as there was when I was a kid.
And I think that’s down to trust…we don’t know our neighbours and don’t make the effort to get to know them…apart from privacy wishes I do think this is because the trust in one another is lacking ….something to think on hey 💝
Neighbourhood social events, online community platform to support, offer help to the more vulnerable, talk to each other is a good start
Lady Jay 